The topic for this particular entry has been bouncing around my head for some time now, which seems ironic since April is the month
I made the big decision to end things with my previous boyfriend. As much as I'd like to think the two events aren't directly connected to one another, I probably can't totally disregard that possibility.
Regardless of reasons, I wanted to spend some time "thinking aloud" about one of the weirder complications of any break-up - how to handle your friends. For those who have been in this unfortunate situation, the you know exactly what I mean. For those who haven't, well, I sincerely hope that you never have to go through this sort of thing.
And to state the obvious, the images within the post are those sourced through
Creative Commons are more illustrative of friendships in general and not indicative of my actual friends.

Ron, Gordon and Fausto hanging out by Fausto Fernos / feastoffun.com via Flickr
Friends are always important in our lives, regardless of gender. Cue references to quotes like "no man is an island" and the whole discussion on how humans are social creatures. And this is probably more true among gay circles since our decision to come out (or at least accept who we are) inevitably alienates some friends, thus making your gay-friendly friends all the more important, moreso your core gay friends that make up your primary support structure in your gay life.
When you decide to get involved with someone, the two of you start to share your social circles, thus blurring the lines and creating a new larger social structure. On the other hand, there's no actual way to define how to resolve these larger social constructs once the two of you decide to move on in different directions. And there lies the pickle.